In the Umayyad Mosque of Damascus, an Arab scholar was giving a sermon on the virtues of charity (Sadqah), saying: "Only a couple of devils try to stop servants from performing ordinary good deeds, but a swarm of seventy devils pursues a person to stop them from giving charity from their wealth, ensuring that this person fails to give charity by any means." After mentioning this virtue, the Arab scholar encouraged the audience, asking: "Who is there who will defeat these seventy devils and please their True Master?"

A young man stood up from the crowd, his anger flaring up, and he said, "Today, I will inflict a crushing defeat upon the seventy." Saying this, he left the gathering, came to his house, filled a sack with wheat flour that was in a barrel, and was just about to step out with the intention of giving it in charity when he encountered his wife at the door.

Wife: "Where are you going with this flour?"

Young man: "I am going to give it in charity."

Wife: "Come on, quickly put the flour back in the house and get out! You haven't brought anything to eat or drink, and here you are going out to give the house's flour in charity."

The young man quietly put the flour back in the house and returned to sit in the gathering.

Someone asked him, "Did you defeat the seventy devils?"

The young man replied, "إِنِّي هَزَمْتُ الشَّيَاطِينَ وَلَكِنْ جَاءَتْ أُمُّهُمْ فَهَزَمَتْنِي" (Translation: I had defeated all those devils, but their mother arrived out of nowhere and defeated me).

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The Importance of Gentleness and Soft-spokenness Among Scholars and the Elite

The Importance of Gentleness and Soft-spokenness Among Scholars and the Elite

Gentleness and a soft temperament are extremely necessary among the class of scholars and the elite. Speaking in a harsh tone and getting angry, if done with the intention of training and reformation, obviously has no harm in it. However, if its purpose is merely to satisfy one's anger and vent one's frustration, then this is against the dignity of scholars and the elite. If a common man says something that goes against the nature and temperament of the elite, one should not get provoked immediately. Obviously, a common and uneducated person's way of speaking is usually ordinary; they do not know the etiquette of conversing with scholars and the elite. Now, if the elite also get into an altercation with him, then that common man who had approached a scholar—regardless of his purpose, whether worldly or for the hereafter—when the scholar speaks to him non-seriously and adopts a harsh, rough tone upon encountering an unpleasant remark, then obviously that common man will become distant and averse to him. He will avoid meeting that scholar again or benefiting from his graceful company. Contrary to this, if the scholar exercises patience and forbearance over something that goes against his temperament, and responds to his non-serious talk in a serious and gentle manner, then firstly, a good and positive message will reach him from the scholars and the elite. Secondly, this gracious and noble behavior of the scholars and elite will not leave him unimpressed. Thus, who knows, he might be so moved by this that he holds fast to the companionship of scholars and the elite, thereby reforming both his worldly life and the hereafter. May Allah Blessed and Exalted grant us the ability to act upon this. Earn the reward of both worlds by conveying this special message to other scholars. ____________🌹🌹____________ (Book: Monthly Zaad-us-Saeed Karachi (November) Page Number: 28 Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App)