The incident of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal (may Allah have mercy on him) being flogged during the trial of the "Creation of the Quran" (Khalq-e-Quran) is among the most famous events in Islamic history. When the Imam emerged successful from this trial, he would afterwards occasionally say, "May Allah have mercy on Abu al-Haytham, may Allah forgive him, may Allah overlook his faults."

One day, his son asked him, "Who is Abu al-Haytham for whom you keep praying?" He replied, "Do you not know him?" The son said, "No." Imam Ahmad said, "On the day I was taken out to be flogged, I saw a man pulling my clothes from behind. I turned around and looked, and he asked, 'Do you know me?' I said, 'No.' He said, 'I am Abu al-Haytham, the notorious pickpocket and bandit. It is preserved in the official records that I have been flogged eighteen thousand times at different occasions, yet I demonstrated absolute steadfastness in obeying Satan for the sake of this worthless world. You, on the other hand, have been imprisoned for the highest purpose of faith; therefore, while enduring the floggings, observe patience and steadfastness in obeying the Most Merciful (Rahman) for the sake of religion.'"

Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal's morale was further strengthened by his words. It is not known whether Abu al-Haytham remembered his own sentence later or not, but Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal remembered every bit of it—how someone's words had uplifted his courage at a difficult stage of life. This is indeed the grandeur of a true believer (Mardin-e-Mumin): he never forgets a good deed, and always remembers favors and kindness. Whenever the Imam recalled those moments of the past throughout his life, he would shower the shrine of those memories with the flowers of prayers.

Verse:

The wounds of the heart never allowed me to rest in peace,

Whenever the cold wind blew, I remembered you.

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Where Does a Child Learn Foul Language From?

Where Does a Child Learn Foul Language From?

Where does a child learn these abusive words (foul language)? First of all, they learn it from home. A father who abuses his wife over every little thing, abuses his children, or uses such language in private gatherings with friends and on the mobile phone, then this child is learning from the father. The child thinks that abusing is not a bad thing when they see the father abusing the mother at every turn. The child learns the most by watching and listening. The child will do the exact same things in the future that they are seeing now, no matter how much you try to stop them from doing something; doing what they have witnessed becomes an inevitable nature. Then the same things come to the child's tongue. If you want to see what the environment of this child's home is like, just listen to the child's language. The home environment can be known from the child's language. The state of upbringing inside the home can be judged by the child's personality—what kind of upbringing is taking place in the home. The child's way of sitting and standing, their way of speaking, conversing, and mannerisms will reveal it all. There is a lack of proper upbringing in our homes, which is why there is a spoilage in our children. We think that because they went to school, tuition, or a madrasa, our responsibility is fulfilled. This responsibility is not fulfilled. Give them time separately, use civilized words in your conversation so that the child learns language, manners, and tone from you. ____________📝📝____________ Book: 330 Guiding Principles for the Upbringing of Children Page Number: 175 Author: Maulana Muhammad Noman Sahib Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App