Excessive Punishment for Children is Not Beneficial

Hakim-ul-Ummat Hazrat Maulana Muhammad Ashraf Ali Thanvi (R.A.)

He stated that excessive punishment is not beneficial for education and training. It leads to the following harms:

1. Out of fear of punishment, children forget what they have memorized.

2. The physical and mental faculties of children become weak.

3. Due to continuous beating, children get used to punishment and lose their sense of shame; after that, punishment has no effect on them.

4. Since children do not have the power to take revenge, malice (grudge) develops in their hearts. Then, this malice gives rise to jealousy.

5. Consequently, they begin to harbor thoughts of causing harm to others.

6. Following this, they fall into the habit of deceit and cunningness. All these (vices) are the offspring of arrogance (Kibr).

(Ma'arif-e-Ashrafiya, Page 106)

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The Piercing Truth: Caliph Sulayman and Sheikh Abu Hazim's Dialogue

The Piercing Truth: Caliph Sulayman and Sheikh Abu Hazim's Dialogue

Sulayman bin Abdul Malik, who was a king of the Umayyad dynasty, once inquired from Sheikh al-Hadith Abu Hazim (may Allah have mercy on him), "What is the reason that we love this world and dislike the Hereafter?" He immediately replied, "Because you have populated and built up your world, and ruined your Hereafter. Therefore, you fear moving from a populated place into a ruined wasteland." Then Sulayman asked, "If only we could know what our condition will be in the Hereafter?" Abu Hazim replied, "Read the Quran, you will find out." Sulayman asked, "Which verses should I read?" He recited: (اِنَّ الْاَبْـرَارَ لَفِىْ نَعِـيْمٍ ،وَاِنَّ الْفُجَّارَ لَفِىْ جَحِـيْمٍ) meaning, 'Indeed, the righteous will be in pleasure, and indeed, the wicked will be in Hellfire.' Sulayman then inquired, "What will be the scene of the servants' appearance in the court of Allah?" Abu Hazim answered, "As for the righteous, their state will be like a traveler who returns happily to his family after years of separation. And as for the wicked, their state will be like a runaway slave who is captured and presented before his master." This truthful speech of Sheikh Abu Hazim pierced Sulayman's heart like an arrow of profound impact, and he cried out and began to weep intensely. (Reference: Ruh al-Bayan, Vol. 5, p. 253) ـــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ Book: Allah Walon ki Dunya se Be-Raghbati ke 200 Waqiat (Page No. 444) Author: Maulana Arsalan bin Akhtar Selected by: Islamic Tube Pro App