Even if the doctor is an expert and the medicine is beneficial, if precaution and abstinence are not practiced, then generally neither the medicine works nor the doctor's treatment proves useful. Everyone admits that here there is no issue with the doctor's expertise or the medicine's effectiveness, rather the trouble is just that the patient does not practice precaution and abstinence. Similarly, when the scholars (Ulama) say to abstain from listening to and reading the misguided and the people of falsehood, there too, neither is there any deficiency in the expertise of the scholars nor is there any defect in their religion and faith; rather, the whole issue is of not practicing abstinence, because an ordinary person, due to a lack of knowledge, can be influenced and misguided by the glibness and deception of the misguided. And yes, just as prescribing abstinence is considered a sign of goodwill from a doctor, in the same way, advising abstinence from listening to and reading the misguided should also be understood as goodwill from the scholars. Therefore, along with learning religion from and staying attached to the people of truth, it is essential to completely avoid listening to and reading the misguided groups!

✍️... Banda Mubeen-ur-Rehman

Jamia-tul-Abrar Masjid Akhtar, Gulberg Block 11, Karachi

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The Importance of Gentleness and Soft-spokenness Among Scholars and the Elite

The Importance of Gentleness and Soft-spokenness Among Scholars and the Elite

Gentleness and a soft temperament are extremely necessary among the class of scholars and the elite. Speaking in a harsh tone and getting angry, if done with the intention of training and reformation, obviously has no harm in it. However, if its purpose is merely to satisfy one's anger and vent one's frustration, then this is against the dignity of scholars and the elite. If a common man says something that goes against the nature and temperament of the elite, one should not get provoked immediately. Obviously, a common and uneducated person's way of speaking is usually ordinary; they do not know the etiquette of conversing with scholars and the elite. Now, if the elite also get into an altercation with him, then that common man who had approached a scholar—regardless of his purpose, whether worldly or for the hereafter—when the scholar speaks to him non-seriously and adopts a harsh, rough tone upon encountering an unpleasant remark, then obviously that common man will become distant and averse to him. He will avoid meeting that scholar again or benefiting from his graceful company. Contrary to this, if the scholar exercises patience and forbearance over something that goes against his temperament, and responds to his non-serious talk in a serious and gentle manner, then firstly, a good and positive message will reach him from the scholars and the elite. Secondly, this gracious and noble behavior of the scholars and elite will not leave him unimpressed. Thus, who knows, he might be so moved by this that he holds fast to the companionship of scholars and the elite, thereby reforming both his worldly life and the hereafter. May Allah Blessed and Exalted grant us the ability to act upon this. Earn the reward of both worlds by conveying this special message to other scholars. ____________🌹🌹____________ (Book: Monthly Zaad-us-Saeed Karachi (November) Page Number: 28 Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App)