One friend asked another friend, "What gift did your husband give you on the happy occasion of the child's birth???" The friend replied, "Nothing at all!!!" She asked mockingly, "Is this a good thing??? Does he not value you at all in his eyes???" Dropping this poisonous bomb of words, that friend walked away, leaving the other friend entangled and lost in her own worries!!! A little while later, around Dhuhr (afternoon) time, her husband came home and found his wife with a long face. Then a fight broke out between the two, they cursed each other, a physical altercation took place, and the husband divorced her!!! Do you know where the problem started??? From that useless sentence which the friend who came to visit her had spoken!!! Similarly, Zaid asked Hamid!! "Where do you work??" Hamid: "In such and such shop!!" "How much monthly salary does he give??" Hamid: "18,000 rupees!!" Zaid: "Only 18,000 rupees? How do you survive your life with this much money??" Hamid, taking a deep breath: "Sigh brother, what can I say!!" The meeting ended!! After a few days, Hamid became fed up with his work and demanded a salary increase, which the owner rejected. The young man left the job and became unemployed. Previously he had work, now he has none!!! A gentleman said to a person who lived separately from his son!! "Your son comes to visit you very rarely, does he not love you??" Bag (The father) said, "My son remains busy, his work schedule is strict. He has a wife and children. He gets very little time!!" The first man said, "Wow, what nonsense is this? You raised him, fulfilled his every desire, and now you are making excuses for him yourself that he doesn't get time due to his busy schedule? This is just an excuse not to meet!!" After this conversation, a lingering ache/grudge arose in the father's heart against his son. Whenever the son came to visit, the father would keep thinking that he has time for everyone except me! Remember! Words spoken from the tongue can leave a very deep impact on others! Undoubtedly, Satan speaks through the tongues of some people! In our daily lives, some questions seem very innocent to us! "Why didn't you buy this?" "Why don't you have this?" "How can you live your whole life with this person?" "How can you agree with him?" We ask most of these questions out of ignorance or aimlessly, while forgetting what kind of seed of hatred or love these questions of ours are sowing in the heart of the listener! In today's era, if we look at the root of the conflicts happening around us or in our homes, there is often someone else's hand behind it. They do not know that sentences spoken out of ignorance or intentionally can destroy someone's life! Do not become a spreader of discord!! Go into people's houses as if you are blind, and come out of there as if you are mute. 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 Share this writing for Sadaqah Jariyah (continuous charity). ____________📝📝_____________ Narrated. Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App